Confidence Never Fully Ripens

I have faced a number of harsh Confidence Conflicts this week. I sometimes wish I had never named my new book Confident Beauty, because it is a constant reminder that […]

Beautiful Trophy

A beautiful girl walks into the room and all heads turn to spontaneously (and often subconsciously) do a quick assessment of confidence–the woman’s and their own. “Wow, she is beautiful. […]

Free from Confidence Crushers

You and I face Confidence Conflicts every day. Some of them are self-inflicted because we allow our minds to dwell on our own imperfections, inadequacies and mistakes. Others are inflicted on us […]

Overcoming Image Issues

Image issues often start with a simple opinion. Sometimes a child’s taunting “your ugly” still rings in a woman’s ears 40 years later. I have counseled girls with obsessions over […]

Take Care of You

I love to analyze women. I love to assess which style of beauty they are and teach them what not to wear. I love to consider their personality and encourage […]

Confidence Secured by Salvation

A bad-hair day is not the only thing that will rock a girl’s confidence. I can think of many other confidence conflicts, how about you? You make a great accomplishment […]

Good-hair Confidence

Most men don’t get it. Casual Img.IDs (Naturals and sometimes Gamines) struggle to understanding it, too–well, actually they don’t really try to understand it, they just think the less-casual women […]

Confidence Conflicts

Confidence Conflicts come in shapes and sizes. Sometimes it’s the snide remark of a friend or a glare of an enemy. Other times it’s the lack of response from your […]

I choose Joy

I wasn’t even 19 when I got my first job as a hairdresser. Being the new girl with a zeal for my blossoming career I was often asked by my […]

Confidently Focused

It’s been about a month since I started wearing bifocals. I still can’t get used to them! The term “dizzy blonde” is taking on a whole new meaning for me. […]