Beautiful Garment of Gratitude

My best friend is one of the happiest people I know. Everyone loves to be around her because her joy and enthusiasm for life is contagious. Many of us go […]

Welcome to My Mess

Have you ever held back from saying something because you didn’t want to draw attention to yourself? I did that to you on Wednesday. I’m sorry. It’s not the first time I’ve […]

Are You Confident in the Face of Correction?

“No, no, honey, that’s dangerous.” You would think my mom had just slapped the kid across the face and yelled at him by the way he burst into heart-wrenching tears. I […]

My Struggle with Confident Beauty

My whole world was rocked the day my first husband left me.  Pregnant and alone, his betrayal made me feel ugly, unwanted and self-conscious. Before then, even though I was a hairdresser, I never really focused […]

Are You a Dry Sponge? 

I was all ready to walk out the door. I’d taken extra care in choosing my outfit and applying my makeup because I needed to make a good impression at […]

Community Builds Confidence

This week, while I was away with my family, there was a number of drug overdoses back home, two of them within my circles of life.  Addiction has become a […]

Holy Hug

I remember the guilt like yesterday. I remember the crime as well, but twenty years later it hardly seems like something to have been so ashamed of. I was a […]

Are Cliques Bad?

Cliques. Nobody likes them unless they are them. Girlfriends who are having a good time together can (purposely or unmindfully) snub those around them, and if you are the one […]