Search results for: “Beauty Battle “

  • Why I Love Platform University

    Why I Love Platform University

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    “Will you remember me when you’re famous?” This question was a common response of my peers when the publication of my book, Confident Beauty, was announced. With each snide remark, I found my heart challenged. I respect the fact that one person’s success can create Confidence Conflicts for others, but I wasn’t prepared for the emotional battle that…

  • Discovering Self-Confidence Takes Self-Discovery

    Life is a journey in search for significance. Our innate desire to be valued is apparent as soon as we enter this world. Newborns thrive when they feel loved; a neglected baby suffers not only emotionally but physically. Each of us is born with a strong desire to know who we are. A child is like…

  • Is Fashion Foolish?

    My grandmother was known around Wellfleet as, “the lady with the hair.” She died at 67 still having a long, red mane, which was always tied back loosely with a simple scarf. As a little girl I was in awe of her confident beauty. Some people think it is shallow, selfish or vain that so…

  • Selfie-Validation

    Don’t you just love social media? Really, when you have a need for validation, all you have to do is post a selfie and wait for all the comments to come in. Or not. Silence on the internet can be brutal to a girl’s confidence. So can some of the comments. Why, then, do girls…

  • Confidence Secured by Salvation

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    A bad-hair day is not the only thing that will rock a girl’s confidence. I can think of many other confidence conflicts, how about you? You make a great accomplishment and no one seems excited for you. You don’t make the team/ get the job/position you worked so hard for. You are totally misunderstood and…

  • Speaking

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    For me, speaking is about empowering women to BE who they were designed to be. There’s no greater joy than helping others recognize the twisted-Truths they believe so they can overcome Image Issues or any other Confidence Conflict that holds them  back. My most popular keynotes  address the areas of beauty, rejection and loss, these are some of the challenges I…

  • Romantic Power

    Romantics are full-figured women, or at least they have a curvy structure, very often a figure 8. I would say that about 75% of the Romantics I know developed their beautiful curves at a very young age. Some hit puberty when they are still children, although they are not the only Img.IDs that may develop…

  • A healthy Co-dependency

    Abigail was in a predicament. Her husband had infuriated her king and her whole family was about to face death. Her response was to quickly made two hundred loaves of bread, added two skins of wine, five sheep already dressed, five “seahs” of roasted grain, one hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of…

  • Naked and Unashamed

    It may seem like a “Christianeze” to say you were created to be “like God” because this is not an easy concept to grasp, depending on what you have experienced in life. Most of us have an especially hard time trying to grasp the idea that a woman’s desire to be beautiful is actually part…

  • A Partial Reflection of God

    Pure beauty is healing; that is why we send flowers to the grieving heart. It is powerful. It is meant to inspire others to become better, stronger and more relaxed and confident; that is why we vacation in beautiful resorts. Your beauty should bring peace, joy and energy to others. That is what Eve’s beauty…

  • Let Them Stare!

    And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 I was pregnant with Rebecca when the doctors were trying to count her fingers and thought maybe she didn’t have them all because she held them so tight and…

  • Balancing Confidence Conflicts

    Have you ever been thrown off balance by a distorted understanding of truth? It’s easy to take one side of the truth or the other and blow it out of proportion. When we believe a distorted truth, we can be left off balance and confused … and it is not beautiful to live a  stressed…